What do you think we should have on these page?
Hi Cyprus 10. We really like the idea of an interactive questionnaire as part of the ap. How about questions like these?
Does your partner treat you with respect?
How much time do you spend with your boyfriend
Are you happy in your relationships?
Does your partner hit you
Does your partner go with the opposite sex?
Does your boyfriend do the right thing?
Do they cheat on you
Do you go out for a date or just go to bed?
Does your partner respect you and your family and his family?
Do you have to cope with abuse?
Does your partner stop you from seeing your friends who are the same sex/ different sex?
Do you love your partner?
Does your partner buy you a present for special occasions?
Does your partner comment about the way you dress?
Does your partner take you out for a meal?
How much time do you spend together?
Does your partner listen to you?
Do you feel comfortable with your partner?
Are you happy together?
Can the app have a tool that can help you 'assess' whether your relationships is healthy or not? Like a questionnaire that you answer and then you can 'score' your answers to see if certain behaviors in the relationship are healthy or not
The app needs to include info particularly on how the new media can affect young people's relationships. Like the video we watched about sexting ('Megan's Story').
I think the app should also be interactive somehow. For instance it can include the various 'polls'. Not only the results of the polls but also the opportunity to vote on a topic. And to be interactive in other ways so it can be interesting. To include videos for instance. Not just plain information.
UK 14 we like your suggestion very much! We think what we can also 'expand' the ' ladder of jealousy' to include a 'ladder' of various forms of violence. Starting from 'mild' forms of abuse (like checking up on someone, checking your partner's mobile phone etc) which are more or less 'green' or similar, then moving on to more serious forms of abuse (orange) to the most serious forms of abuse (Red). This can also be part of the app as well
We think what to do depends on the different levels of jealousy. We are going to develop a ladder of jealousy. We’d like this to be part of the ap. We will do it in the next four weeks. It will start with low level feelings (green) that nobody acts on. Then medium level (orange) things to be concerned about. Then high level(red) alarm things.
When we develop an ap we should have some of it simpler for younger people. This will mean changing words for different ages and abilities. Changing format for disabilities like dyslexia. Have age appropriate sections
these are the ideas we came up with:
make sure we update the website every 6 weeks change the discusiion questions
chnage the questiions into a storyborad or flow chart
These are just ideas we have had that we hope to do !
we hope to add to these over the coming months.
LYC SRE group
Get the sexting advert that I did for Rock FM and put that on the website.
As well as improving the website we need to get information out to young people in schools.
We need a directory of local contacts.
We are going start greating our new images for this website, so there are less words!
Are you a young person in an advisory group who helped design these pages? Please post your comments and we will make further changes.
Can you tell us more about what is happening in each country?